This is the story or michael quinn... Get wasted and smoke weed = fucks girl, screw girl over = fall out with friends, find new friends, ditch friends, fuck more girls, smoke more weed = Act depressed to get girls to like him = fuck girls = screw girls over. You're just one big cycle, I don't understand how you would need a nice girl to change? How does this girl know for sure you're not going to do the same thing to every other girl you've been with? Can you please explain?
So much writing, jesus. Well yeah whatever. But if I had a girl I wouldn’t be in the cycle of fucking girls. I think everyones view on me is worse than it actually is. I’m not even that bad, so shut up.
In reference to the questions about being a nice to a girl and treating her properly, I don't think you can do that until you find the right person. A person that you want to treat properly and actually couldn't do wrong by because it'd make you miserable to do so. My boyfriend had a pretty bad reputation, like yourself, and I was scared shitless to be with him because I thought he'd hurt me eventually, so I got back with my ex, and I was miserable. So when me and my ex broke up and my current boyfriend still wanted to know regardless of how much of a knob I'd been I guess I knew he must have really cared about me, and we're still all happy and together now.
I don't mean to tell you my life story here, just kind of put across, that you shouldn't force yourself to change because you think you should. When you meet the right person it'll happen naturally, because you won't want to do them wrong.
I don't think your a bad person or a knob, you're just a young lad having fun with his life and that's fine. Whenever I've spoken to you you've come across as fairly intelligent. Don't really know you very well, but I kind of want to take you under my wing and give you loads of motherly advice. Take my motherly advice, haha.
Yeah exactly. Ofcourse i’m not going to change when there is nobody to change for. Like i’ve said before, i’ve done what I have just to have fun, why not? Everyone else does it. Here’s how it is, harsh or not.. Basically people think i’m a cunt because i ‘fuck girls around’ and ‘fuck with there heads’ but come on it’s pretty clear that I didn’t want anything other than sex, and if they did think that they’re dumb.
Some of the best advice i’ve had was from a close mate and it was “not all girls want to come home with you” which is true. But when i’m drunk and I like a girl, I keep my attention on them and I don’t actually try and get with other people around them. I actually told someone I really did like them recently, but it seems to be a waste of time ;/
Yeah if you are happy with your boyfriend then that’s brilliant. Ofcourse you’ll always be abit worried about things going wrong, that just proves yous are close. But you don’t wanna get too worried either, cause that can make people controlling. I’ve never ever been like that, but I am a terribly jealous person, terribly. People don’t see it cause I hide it well, but when I get jealous i’ll try and get back, and it’s not about that.
I don’t think i’m a bad person either, I just think people judge me to easily. It’s fine I guess because the things I do make me judged for the worst either way. But people need to speak to me and hear what I have to say rather than listening to stupid whiny bitches over facebook. I do like to think i’m fairly intelligent as well, thanks! I still don’t actually have a clue who you are. Thanks anyway.
Okay. I'm just wondering. Because you have really hurt a lot of people. And i'm just thinking it would be a shame if you couldn't find happiness because of your past.
Everyone deserves to be happy, it just a horrible thought thinking that people might not even bother with you.
I mean in general, by the way.
This if from the person you least expect. (:
It’s fine, it’s pretty much the same story I always tell. But obviously not having anyone to change for I’m stuck in the circle. I’m not worried about not finding happiness to be honest, it’ll just happen. I just can’t help feelings towards people and then just being shy towards them. Because people see how I am they can never tell if i’m joking around or actually being serious when talking to someone I actually like. Anyway, I have a sexy lighter.
If you found a nice girl, would you actually be a nice guy. A good boyfriend. Or would you fuck around like you used to do. Because it seems like your scaring nice girls away.
I would definitely change. I can understand why girls are scared cause of my reputation. I’ve just been trying to have some fun and I’m tired of being that kind of person. It’s just actually finding the right girl, I have been interested in people but I don’t chase them enough and I end up just not bothering. And then I lose out. ;/
Isn’t it that Valentines business coming up? Yaknow that other shitty holiday of the year that gives the internet something to cry about. Oh you’re single? Boo hoo, what are you the rest of the 364 days? Stop bitching and go wank in a mirror. Candle too.
We all just need someone worth it, someone worth changing for. We need to develop trust, ignore all the lies and ignore all the rumours. Don’t allow reputation to ruin things. We all need to take that chance, but we won’t..